OLD JOURNAL!!!

I found a journal from 2007! I was stoked enough, but then I realized there were some entries about my sweet husband and his brother (we met in middle school). Also, there are plenty of grammatical and spelling errors, so I am omitting many of these: [sic].

January 1st, 2007:
I'm so exited! Why? My friends Stephen and Levi Stannard are comming to Timpview! Yeah they're brothers. Twins even. In fact last night was a tri-stake dance. (Yes, a church dance. I love the church!) Eitherways, me and Elissa were hanging out and dancing with guys on the slow dances and just having a good time. Then, she came up with the bright idea of inviting the Stannards! I hadn't seen them since last May. So, I ofcourse said yes. (They were supposed to be there anyway.) So I called them up on my cell phone. Stephen picked up. Turns out, they didn't know there was a dance! There was half an hour left when I called them so, by the time they got to the dance, there were only three dances left! But luckily, one was a slow dance. It was completely romantic. There we were, me and Elissa facing Levi and Stephen. After about 3 seconds they got the idea. Levi took my hands and Stephen took Elissa's. It was so charming. It was weird. I didn't feel awkward or anything. Usually that happens when you dance with a friend. Stephen told me before that he liked Elissa. Alot. Go figure, she's perfect!

So anyways, the dance ended and we all went home. I had a calm feeling. All over! 'One of the best nights of my life' I labeled it. I don't know if I like him. We'll have to see!

January 16th, 2007:
Oh yes, The Stannards are back! I bought Levi some lunch because I saw him and he had no money. So yeah I hung out with him at lunch. I'm glad they're back I missed them!

January 23rd, 2007:
And omgosh Elissa and I were chatting with Stannard (Steaven) and he likes this girl named Charlie and he told us about their "first date". He said they saw a movie and then he showed her his sword collection!

I was like "Girls don't like that stuff!" It was so hilarious. Don't get me wrong, Stannard is the best, but when it comes to "impressing the ladies" he needs some help. But he's not alone, I suppose. I can't make fun of him.

February 6th, 2007:
Stannard says he's gonna buy Elissa some flowers so I said I'd help him out with ten dollars. There goes my hoodie, but it's for a good cause! Also, there are these really cute teddy bears at school, I think I'll buy one.

March 4th, 2007:
Yesterday I went to a killer party @ Elissa's house! It consisted of me, her and Steaven Stannard. Small, but very fun! Sometimes I felt out of place because they're both into really nerdy things. Don't get me wrong, I love 'em but...yeah.

April 25th, 2007:
You know I love my Stannards. (The twins?) Well Steaven has an issue with being too deep at stupid times. I don't have enough patience for someone who goes around "studying the ways of samurai & ninjas" It gets so old so fast. I don't hate the kid, I'm just sick of his "trying to gain strength" and whatnot.

I am not trying to be a priss or anything (Although I probably sound like one right now). I am just sick of it!

Update 1/20/2014

Well, I can tell you right now that I still have a job so I am closer to one of my resolutions, but that's it. I've actually been doing worse at going to church - I haven't gone once this year - so I am not any closer to being sealed. I haven't done any service.

Steve and I have been looking for an apartment. For some reason, being students and having part time jobs is not good enough for most renters. We "don't earn enough" because we'd make $1,000 a month. Which, sure doesn't look amazing because most apartments are $550 - $800 a month, but we also have student loans and grants for such things. That's what they're for.

Anyway, that's annoying. School is going a little bit better. I love my MORT 1010 class so far and I look forward to doing more of it. I changed my other classes so now I only have on-campus classes on Mondays (MORT 1010 & COMM 1020) and two online classes (ACT1110 & some teamwork problem-solving class). No pregnancy/doula class anymore. It was just too frufru for me. I wanted it to be more science/fact based.

So yes. Sorry for not being more reflective and personal, but I have not had time to think of such things.

New Years Resolutions

I always do these, but I never follow through. I'm completely serious about it but, usually, I've forgotten all about them by February. They're fun to do anyway though so...

#1: Do more service. Do at least one session of real service a month. Not the usual (still important) stuff, but like volunteering at a homeless shelter or the bishop's storehouse.

#2: Keep a job for at least 6 months. My resume looks terrible right now because, out of three listed jobs, one lasted two months and the other lasted one week! Bad news.

#3: Keep an apartment. Kinda goes in tandem with #2, but it's high time I become more responsible.

#4: No "C" grades in school. The only exception is math. Seriously, C's are dumb.

#5: Get Sealed. I have this soulmate who I'd like to take it to the next level with.

That's them! I would really be proud of myself if I could do these (or at least one of these). Wish me luck and may you do well with all of your endeavors this year.

Music is a sport

I should explain first that I took piano lessons for about 12 years. I played viola for 10 and took a few years of lessons in there. So, this is not coming from someone who doesn't appreciate music or wasn't good at  it.

Given that, I have to say that I really hate the underbelly of the music world. Percussion is a little different from all the others, so I don't know how that is, but I know with singers and other musicians, it's always a competition. "I have to have first chair." "I have to be section leader." "I have to sound better than everyone else."

It's always about comparing and lesson history and practice time. No one really appreciates another, it's all about being better than all of them. Being the best.

I never learned to read music. Piano music is definitely a goner and viola has it's own clef, which I was eventually able to translate into 'the placement of this note means this finger goes there'. I was never able to figure out the time measurements or how much time value notes got. Luckily, I have ears and was able to listen. That's how I got by. I learned to associate this section of what I heard to this section of what may as well have been Chinese (notes). Even better, my memorization for such things was prime.

Some people called it talented, but it was more of a curse. I always knew I could never be as good as I had potential for because I couldn't learn to read music. Musicality was there - many times, by many teachers and audience members, I was called "talented". Many people's favorite aspect was my viola vibrato and my piano flow or "emotion". My college conductor said it was a shame I couldn't take more lessons because I had "raw talent" and he could tell I had been listening to a recording because I was "doing wonderful things with the music".

As I was saying, musicality was there, but as soon as I exploited all that I had, I was done. As soon as I had no one to listen to, I was nothing (other than what I could play from memory, things I'd heard a million times, and things I made up). I eventually reached that point with viola. Professional music was as good as it got but, when I revisited it after not being in school for mere months, some parts of the music were foreign to me. I couldn't remember how those parts went.

I am just one of those many unique players on the basketball court of music. Raw talent, but unable to improve after a point. That's just me, against all these other players with all these other catches of their own. But it is that competitive and I wish we'd all just appreciate all the different musicians for what they bring to the table, rather than eat each other up (or worse, eat ourselves up) over trying to be the best. Be your best and, more importantly, enjoy the music.

I want to be better.

I really can't stress it enough but, especially after this semester, I want to be better. People keep asking me what I'm up to and I respond with "absolutely nothing". I'm not doing a thing. I'm not volunteering, I'm not going to school, and I don't have a job.

All I have been doing is taking Stephen to school when he has it and decides not to ditch. I cook sometimes and I've sold my viola. That's about it. And while I love not having much of the regular stress, I have to admit that a different stress has been present. It's not the tearing-my-hair out, full-blown nightmares stress that I get from being employed, it's more desperate distress. It's quiet and constant.

I worry about how we'll get our next meal or gas money. I get mad at myself for not using my time for anything but relaxing or stressing about my near future and possible babies and my health. I'm not improving at all. I need to improve myself.

• I would like to improve my communication skills. Or at least I want to improve my anxiety around people. I have a difficult time wanting to hang out with my closest friends still. They're the best friends in the world and I love them but, especially because I care what they think and how they feel, it's draining for me. 

• I want to be more loving. To some people I seem like the most loving person on the planet, but I get in these fits of hatred for mankind in general. I am a pessimist at heart, unfortunately, so sometimes it is hard to look past the trespasses made against me and others. It's hard to forgive and, much more so, forget. It's irritating to know that lying is so common. It makes it difficult to trust anyone. And I don't want to be like that. 

• I want to be smarter. Who doesn't want to be smarter? Firstly, it would probably make it so I'm taken seriously. Oftentimes I say something - even about a field I'm knowledgeable in - and people discredit me entirely. It's frustrating and annoying because I'm not stupid about some things. I want some credibility.

• I want to be happy. I think that's a common goal. The only way to be truly happy is to do service, we all know that. I need to do more service. I want to study abroad or do some kind of service mission. 

• More than anything, I want to be inspirational. At least, I want to be someone people can feel comforted around or happy. If I could do that, my life would be complete. I have a long way to go, but my purpose would be fulfilled if I could change one person's life for the better for the right reasons. 

So, in closing, I'm really excited for January. Hopefully I can start a new way of life and make myself a better person. Happy Holidays!

I love college.

Okay, so we all know I'm not good at it but, regardless, I really love college.

I had signed up first thing for my mortuary science 1010 class, then I signed up for a required communications class (ew). But then I had a couple of free spaces. At first, I really wanted - and still want - to sign up for the EMT basic course so I could learn a lot of important stuff and be eligible for licensure. Unfortunately, the timing was a little inconvenient and the location was even more so.

SO, I went scouring for classes I could possibly want to take. There were a few interesting ones, but they were all at bad times (due to taking the bus, anything before noon would be bad, and anything multiple times a week is bad). However, as I was scraping the bottom of the barrel - I was actually considering Tongan, the language class - I found this Doula and pregnancy preparation class!

I of course had to look up what a Doula was. Then I noticed that you can become licensed as one! Good class timing, it's interesting, and you can get a professional licensure. Sign me up! So I did. As soon as I import my classes from Snow, I can sign up for human biology as well which isn't as interesting, but more relevant to my career path.

Anyway, there was a Zumba class, a Scuba class, a Bellydancing class, World Religions, Sacred Traditions, and that EMT class as well. College is awesome. I can't wait to learn!

Life is really...

Dumb and irritating. But interesting and lovely sometimes.

Like a test.
Just like a test.

Living the lifestyle I have right now, I have plenty of time to think about my relatively short, probably miserable life. I get to think about just how neat and delicate it is to have a body that works properly. One little thing could mess with everything. The body itself is a system of systems and, if one part of one system fails, it could have intense repercussions for other systems.

I get to think about the very permanent, very far-reaching consequences our choices and actions have on ourselves and others. I get to be frustrated about the injustices and joyous about the victories - even and especially the small ones. I see how dumb grudges, fights, and hard feelings are. I see how miraculous childbirth is and how magnificent death can be. I get to realize growth and progress through the fires of adversity. I appreciate and envy when someone enjoys what they do for a living.

It's frustrating, taxing, often rewarding, and definitely eye-opening. How is this not a test?