I really love my husband. I can't tell you how much he means to me. I realize that I'm a newlywed and I have no idea what's ahead, but I know I'll enjoy it when and while I can.
Sure, we fight occasionally. Everyone does. It's usually over silly things and it doesn't last long anyway. They're more like discussions than anything. He has never yelled at me, and that's something I really appreciate.
Another thing I appreciate is that he makes a perfect friend for me. I get needy for affection from him at times. I get insecure and anxious at times. I get irritated, sad, and talkative. No matter how I am feeling, he knows how to respond. He makes sure not to spoil me or get me accustomed to too much of anything, but ensures that I am satisfied/comforted.
He doesn't mind fooling around. In both meanings of the word, but I'm referring to the G-rated version. He knows when to be silly and he knows that being silly together is important. It is a form of bonding that fosters friendship and stress-relief.
I love talking with him about issues. I like knowing where he stands, what he thinks, and why he thinks that way. We both feel strongly about certain issues and I like that, while we view things similarly, we don't think the same way about all of the same things. It is refreshing to discuss opinions, insight, experience, and knowledge with someone besides yourself once in awhile.
Anyway, just thinking about that today. I really love him.
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